I had a real 'mature' conversation with my young cousin M. Realised that there are people in my lives who just ceased to become important to me as friends.
We somehow just stopped being friends.
Nothing major happened, nothing unhappy or significant. No outbursts, no arguments, no disputes, just... faded away. Fundamentally, I've perhaps always known that we're different, way too different to co-exist in the same system to do things. Over time, we just stopped talking to each other. He's just like a 'wall person' to me, M says. I know he exists and he knows I exist. That's about it.
可惜吗？I'm not sure. There're too many other important things and people in my life to feel that it's a pity to let it go. 就这样吧...
That's reality. Just like how I have a close one who suddenly stopped talking to me and just wanna be 'friends'. How easy one can say 'Let's just be friends'. How indecisive and a long time for one to make such a decision to be 'just friends'. I don't believe in 'just friends'.
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